Broken Pieces

I learned in my mix of being that I was self dependent. Self dependency - relying on oneself for emotional, physical and spiritual support. Though I have people (a limited amount of family relatives) in my life who can support me, internally, I am my own support, and a great damn support along with that.

I had to repair myself by being and living in silence for years. After a medical emergency, I realized that I needed to focus deeply into being more than what I was once before. Many blessings came about in the midst of that awareness. I was finally FREE. Free to express how I felt, who I was and what I was wanting to become. My goal going forward from that point was to focus on goals. Those goals included the small and big goals in my life. 

Energy

One goal I never had in mind was sharing my life with somebody that wasn’t ready. Ready being that self-love and self-care was a focus and concentration of one’s life. I always told myself that I couldn’t allow myself to resolve/repair a person’s mental, physical or psychological issues because it would take a lot of energy. I can give very little energy to a person’s issue(s) because It might require professional attention. My main goal is to focus my energy on my own personal goals and to help with others.  I enjoy sharing and trying my best to do what I can do but in situations like those, a person has to choose to build and work on one’s own issues. 

Pieces

Many people think that sex is a case or physical desires are great but as for me I only encourage self-love and self-care. I don’t want to be just with anybody and be doing just anything with whomever. I want to be with just ONE person who is willing to be just that ideal person who has reached the level of self-care and self-love so that nothing can be toxic when a companionship does come into play. My goal is to build, not to invest energy into things/people that might not be able to be fixed. Some people or things that are broken, sometimes can not be fixed. There are broken pieces that can be restored and there are some that can’t be. 

Think about if you are permanently broken or repairable? 

If you aren’t permanently broken, you might be able to build with somebody who has a high expectation for self-care and self-love. 

To be continued ....

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Knowing Thyself

By Demetre Malcolm Phipps

My Definition

Knowing thyself, what one can do and what one is capable of.

Realization

Waking up and walking in that knowing. When a person is recognized for a contribution, solution, talent, craft, one’s own God given ability, that person appreciates the recognition by living and applying that craft to daily solutions.

Practical Application

After one realizes such aptitude, that person develops self-worth by practicing their craft and not letting anyone affect or compromise one’s value(s) in a negative fashion. Practical Application includes knowing that value and acting upon it.

For example, a music artist is being booked for an event and has a price demand to be compensated because he or she knows that one is a great  performer. That artist should not negotiate a price lower than what he or she feels one is worth for an event, at any specific time. Talent is money and time is, too.

Another example, a person who felt to be around others for therapeutic reasons finally chooses to take another path to do what he or she loves because one’s craft is being recognized.   

The two examples above demonstrates practical application. Realizing one’s value and practicing worth.

Intensive Application

 Any person who knows their true self-worth, doesn’t compromise or negotiate. They appreciate, set limits, standards on such value. Self-worth is not only waking up, living, going to work and then eventually, dying. Self-worth is taking one’s talent, building onto it, and teaching others how to develop self-worth. People with self-worth takes on challenges. They go into careers. They live life knowing that life is about doing what one desires and longs for. Meaning that those types of people won’t settle for just any job. They will set demands based on their worth. This is intensive application. Intensive application is a person who realizes, practices, applies, acts upon such worth, and lives a lifetime to learn and teach others. 

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Self motivation

Before going to sleep motivate and prepare yourself for the day(s) to come. We do not have to fall short thinking otherwise. 

To confess many times and believe the many words when confessing will demonstrate to others true motivation

Do not live in vain, learn, grow and be encouraged. 

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Enjoy, don't oppress

Live as freely as you can because you will be able to make better decisions. When a person is oppressed he/ she is more likely to make bad decisions in life. 

The many ways to keep away from oppression: 

Be around a positive

Set goals for yourself and find a way to identify and manage priorities

Live for what will progress oneself

Be the best you can be

That's living freely

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The good and bad

For every little situation, there is a solution. Solutions can be either good or bad. 

Regarding the situation, a person has a decision to make. The impact can be positive or negative.

Whatever that decision may be there is going to be some disadvantages and also advantages.  No matter there is always going to be some good and bad involved.

That person would have to live with it and grow from whatever the results are. We all will either learn from or break down in our situations.

We will have to take the bad with the good, no matter the circumstance. :) 

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Live.

Be on top and live to your best ability. No matter what people might say, grab a hold of life and make dreams reality. 

When a person starts living, that person starts the process of building. Building nations and making dreams become reality for others is next priority. 

The earth would finally be full of glory, mercy, faith and all positive characteristics that is thought of.

Dream Big! 

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Live today, but gone tomorrow

When you want to achieve something, don't work on it at the last minute. Now, take your time to think about it, but don't take too much time. 

When a person takes action quick, a person is bound to see results faster than the norm. Go and live out dreams before the opportunity dies. Opportunities usually happen once in a lifetime. Live it. 

Live life to the fullest, grab and go get what is desired. People deserve what they want if they work hard for it, that's life and people make it what they want it to be. The choice is up to a person.

Grab life. 

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